Count it.. And make it Count

"Only when you have eaten a lemon do you appreciate what sugar is. ." - Ukrainian Proverb



I learned that who doesn’t look for you, doesn’t miss you and who doesn’t miss you doesn’t care for you… That destiny determines who enters your life, but we get to decide who stays… The truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. That there are three things in life that leave and never return: words, time and opportunities. Therefore, value whoever values you and don’t treat as a priority whoever treats you as an option. In the end, you'll know which people really love you. They're the ones who see you for who you are anda no matter what, always find a way to be at your side

If you find someone who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you're okay, who watches out for you and wants the very very best for you, don't ever let them go.... Keep them close and don't take them for granted. People like that are hard to find. Either they like you or they don't. Never try to convinve somebody of your worth. If a person doesn't appreciate you, they don't deserve you.  Respect yourself and be with people who truly value "You".

Let me sing you the song.... You meet someone, you two get close... It's all great for awhile, until someone stops trying... Talk less. Awkward conversations, simple chit chat, only the usual, the basic.... Then, the drifting... NO comunication whatsoever... Memories start to fade.... Then that person you know becomes that person you KNEW... That's how, unfortunately, things usually goes. Sad, isn't it?

Don't stand by people who doesn't worth your time. You are only going to be as good as the people you surround yourself with, so be brave enough to let go of htose who keep weighing you down. Losing someone who doesn't respect and appreciate you is actually a gain, not a loss. Gather around people who gave something of value to share with you. Their impact wil continue to have a significant effect on your life, loong they have departed... If they even do... I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did.... But people will never forget how you mad them feel....

One of the simplest yet most powerful thing you can do is to tell someone that you appreciate them! Make it a habit to tell people 'thank you!' to express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return....  Truly appreciate thoes around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life! And you'll find that you have more of it!


It is dark one inch ahead...Appreciate what you have, before it turns into what you had

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